Mistake guys make before and during sex
I know that every man thinks that he is the best stallion during sex, but we all agree that we may be doing somethings wrong. Anyway, there is no better way to improve your lovemaking skills than to learn from your mistakes and those of others.
Whether you're someone In need of better approach or a married man looking to add a bit of small spice back into your love life...
Here are some of the worst most common mistakes that men make in bed.. and am sure you will find at least 2 you are doing as well.
1. Not focusing on foreplay
Although having a quickie is fun from time to time, majority of women express opposite opinions. Therefore 10 - 15minute should be dedicated to foreplay and it should involve Everything your woman want from massage to kissing to touching.
How to Do this:
- Sensual messages
- Sexting i.e sexchat: Most men think sex begins in the bed room NO! Therefore you should prepare her mind for sex during the day by sending her some dirty messages
- Dirty Talk: It will surprise you that the biggest and most effective sex organ in women is their brain. If you want to stimulate it and arose it you should learn how to talk dirty
2. Awkward undressing skills
How to take off a bra with one hand. All guys should know that setting the mood I important for almost every woman who you are going to have sex with. And few of us know that you can kill it fast with you poor undressing skills.
How to do this
- When removing the bra or the pant it should be done with caution and slowly in a playful and teasing way
- You can also use your teeth but you will also need the help of your hand
3. Poor Hygiene
Some guys complain that their woman smells down there.. not recognizing that theirs even smells awful. Poor hygiene is a surefire turnoff and a sure way to make your woman really sick both in and out of bed. Although most women love modern beard but sure hates it when you kiss them Or give them oral. The worst is when giving you oral nd its bushy down there, its not really comfortable for her.
How to fix this
- Daily shower is the best way to smell fresh. and twice if you sweat alot or work out alot
- use perfume
- shave the beards
- shave the bush down there
- wash that smelly under wears
4. Being silent and emotionless
Although this one I common to the young guys who are just starting sex but some folks are repeating the same mistakes. Luckily there are ways to fix this
How to fix This
- Moan when you have sex let her feel she's doing it right.. how would you feel if she doesn't
- Express your emotions: very important, you need to show this on your face
- Complement her
5. Not taking Lead during sex:
Although it's cool to let her take lead sometimes but in most cases women want a leading and stronger partner during sex
It is a man role to lead during sex.
How to fix this
- Be confident : trusting your skill is very important
- Lead her : this is very simple all you have to do is tell her what you want in a playful way
6. Rushing to get inside her
Another thing that we guys often do that annoys women a lot is the fact that, all we want is just to get inside her vagina as soon as possible. How ever this leads to painful and hard penetration that completely kills her mood
How to fix
- Undress her slowly and teasing way
- Stimulate her whole body first
- play with her breasts and nipples
NOTE Nothing will kill her mood quite as hard penetration
7. Ignoring her verbal and bodily cues
This is yet another example of why communication is the key. Love making grows stagnant not because of lack of trying, but because someone's missing signals the other one is sending.
8 Same Routine and monotonous stimulation
Again talking it out is the key, try new positions, scenarios and yes setting the mood with different forms of foreplay can help to keep things fresh every time.
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