7 signs you should not marry Your girlfriend
1. She flirts with guys (other than you) to get attention or favors.
Flirtation can seem harmless and fun, but if you’re in a committed
relationship with a woman and she continues to flirt with other guys,
it’s a huge warning sign. It’s revealing a flaw in her character, and
you need to take notice. Talk about it and express your concerns. If
she’s receptive, that’s a positive sign. If she defiantly takes your
concerns as you trying to be controlling, then it’s probably time to
break up.
2. She dresses provocatively and/or uses her sexuality to get attention from men.
This is an extension of the first item on the list about flirting,
but this takes it to a new level. If a woman doesn’t value modesty, and
instead, allows herself to be objectified by men for the purposes of
attention, praise or preferential treatment, do NOT marry her. She’s not
acting like a potential wife; she’s acting like somebody’s potential
mistress.
3. She does not live within her financial means and/or expects other people to finance her preferred lifestyle.
If she’s is always running up credit card debt or always expecting other
people to pick up the bill while showing little or no personal
responsibility, then you should not marry her. I’m not saying chivalry
should be dead and a man shouldn’t pay for a lady when you’re out on
dates. I’m talking about a lifestyle and a mindset that is reckless,
selfish and materialistic. Financial stress is one of the main causes of
divorce and if she has not interest in managing resources responsibly
when you’re dating, you’re in a for a world of financial stress after
you’re married.
4. She doesn’t support your dreams.
This was one on the guys’ list too. If you are dating or engaged to some
who doesn’t support and celebrate your dreams and goals, don’t marry
them! They’re showing a lot of selfishness while also showing a
disregard for you. Marry someone who is your biggest encourager; not
your biggest critic. Marry someone who will make you dream ever bigger
dreams; not someone who undermines your dreams.
5. She tries to Get you away from the people who care about you.
Any dating relationship (and marriage) will have important times of
exclusivity where the two of you are together more often than you are
with everyone else, BUT if she is always trying to pull you away from
your family, friends and loved ones, it’s revealing something dangerous.
If she doesn’t value the people who value you, then she’s trying to
create a future with you where those loved ones won’t be part of the
picture.
6. She loves drama.
If you are with someone who loves “drama” then RUN! Seriously. If
she’s always gossiping or venting about something on social media or by
hyper emotional to get her way, she’s not ready for marriage. Don’t try to justify it and don’t assume she will outgrow it. Just break up. Trust me.
7. She is more interested in having a great WEDDING than in having a great MARRIAGE.
It’s fine to dream about a wonderful wedding, BUT if she is obsessed
with the idea of a perfect wedding and she seems to be giving little
thought to the marriage that will follow, then she’s looking for a
one-day experience; NOT a lifetime commitment.
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